Talk to them, tell them how you feel about this person, especially if they disapprove. Explain your feelings, explain that you took your time getting to this point, and gave it due consideration, and they may be able to see that you are not acting badly, just have unfortunate timing. From their point of view, you just met this guy, since you have kept him secret, and they think you are acting like a slut, which would make them bad brothers. Right now they seem angry, but at the root of that anger if fear, fear that they have failed as brothers to protect and know you. If you tell them the truth, starting with the fact that you have been with this guy seven months prior to doing anything sexual, they may be able to understand. I'm not sure how old/experienced they are, but I'm sure they understand sexual desire. Wow, that's a rough situation, but it has only got one possible solution, you have to talk to them about it. how can I get them to leave/ not tell my parents?! My oldest brother keeps trying to talk to me, but I don't even want to hear his voice! And now, they are staying here till my parents get home. they both started yelling and they made him go home. Well, my brothers ended up coming over to "surprise" me that night for New Years. things escalated and I ended up giving him head. Well, on New Years Eve, I told my boyfriend that he could come over. my parents left the country for two weeks for the holidays, leaving me home alone.
I am the only daughter in the family with two older brothers who are both out of the house. None of my family knew about us because they would NEVER let me be with a guy older than 18. I've been with my first boyfriend now for about 7 months and we finally decided to take our relationship to the next step.